Okay, firstly let me get this straight; everyone is going to be different in how they are designed both physically and mentally so results will vary.

1. The woman must WANT this to happen 100% for herself and NOT just for her man.
2. The woman must be ready to take her sexuality to a new and different level of just cumming clitorially ONLY.
3. The woman should do some research with either both books and/or videos to see that it is a natural state to ejaculate and not a "magic trick" for show.
4. The woman must be ready mentally to know that she will NOT be in control when she squirts/ejaculates and will let herself go completely.
5. The woman must be somewhat confident and understanding of her body and her sensations.

6. The man must be 100% supportive of his partner with her wanting to squirt.
7. The man not put pressure of ANY kind on her to produce a firehose effect..or a porn star projection.
8. The man must LISTEN to his woman and not assume anything that only she knows and understands about her body.
9. The man should not assume that sticking his fingers in her HARD on her G-spot will produce a squirt. This may work for some but not ALL ( I don't do well with that technique myself)
10. The man should be there for the woman and do whatever SHE wants you to do to make her feel comfortable so she can relax enough to 'feel' the sensation of squirting.

Okay, so enough of the rules. Next is the actual preparation.
Firstly, for this to happen, the woman should be HORNY AS HELL....watch some porn flicks/youporn to get her going and a glass of wine maybe too! Dim the lights, put on some candles, no phones, no interruptions! This may take 5 minutes or 2 hours depending on how you approach it and how she feel comfortable and ready. I would recommend a couple of towels underneath her while she is on her back. Legs up in the air with bent knees is a comfortable position. I use a vibrator on my clit to really get me going and even a CURVED dildo (especially made for squirting at your local sex shop) to get me ready.

Once your woman is feeling that PEE sensation she is getting close! Do NOT rush her, let her play with herself unless she asks you to help. First time squirters almost always learn on their own (though I did have the help of a eager hottie!) It happens when she feels like she has to pee but! then she MUST relax relax relax that muscles she is seizing and LET IT ALL GO WHILE BEARING DOWN. This is the KEY. Bearing down while stimulating the clit and the g spot has the better chance to connect and produce the wetness you are looking for. Don't worry if it's not a projector shot - if you bear down while feeling the peeing sensation you are NOT peeing, you are SQUIRTING!!!! The first time is so exciting - everyone is both shocked and ecstatic! If you are nervous about peeing then I would recommend going the bathroom BEFORE you start this.

So, that my two cents with how I see it. I believe woman are supposed to squirt (ejaculate) like men but because of repression over the years women have inadvertently suppressed their natural urge to come this way as it is such a vulnerable act to be in and there are those out there (the non free lovers) who feel a woman is there for a man's pleasure and not hers. Not my kind of people! lol

Anyways, hope this helps. I would love for all women to experience the incredible feeling of ejaculating. I misunderstood it like many women that it was a trick of the sorts and well, kinda 'weird'!!! Now, I LOVE IT and I know my partners do too!!! My wish is that we all understood it as a natural, beautiful occurrence that brings double the pleasure of a clitoral cum.
Good luck to all of you who are thinking about doing it. You WILL NOT REGRET IT.