I have heard for years it's not how big the guy is but how you work it and never belived it until recently...ladies thoughts? opinions?

I agree that it is the way a man works it... however, I also think that size does matter. My personal preference is a man who knows how to work it but has to be at least of a nice girth and length.   So both are important...I am not saying I need some monster size horse dick, but please damn sure no Pee-Wee's playhouse going on.

I've been with men that had an average size and I've been with BBC type men. To me size does not matter as long as they know how to use it. I don't care how big it is, I can only handle so much so I'll make you take some out if it's too much. My problem is that men don't take as long to bust a nut as a woman does and they get theirs while so many times the woman is left unfinished. I've been lucky to say most of the time I get mine (usually oraly) before they get to play all the way. Hey I may be a lady, but I like to fuck and I wanna cum too!!!

Ladies thanks for the input and feedback, but have to pose an extention to the question.  We have found men lately aren't meeting expectation wheather the are nervous, intimidated or just a little to small to fit the bill.  So ladies is there really that big a difference between white men and blk men?