Yes... squirting, female ejaculation is a real thing... not just urban legend... it's really the Nectar of Goddesses, sugar water...

This is a question with 2 bigger parts:
The woman and her lover, normally a man so it'll be 'he' here.

I start with him.

So:
1. Can you hook your lady's mind? Are you able to excite her from distance? And keep her hot for a long time...
2. Are your arms strong? Any cramps? Fingers trimmed and tidy?
3. Are you ok with toys? Or as a real man, no toys needed?
4. Do you like to give head sometimes as foreplay? Or do you prefer BJs?
5. Do you love sex? Watch often porn?
6. Do you like to read? Even books? And manuals?

Then her.
1. When having sex, how long you are THERE? The whole session? Only when you fake your orgasm? Or do you think about shopping list, laundry, kids?
2. Do you masturbate? Have you seen your pussy?
3. Do you like to give BJs? Are you clean enough to enjoy his tongue?
4. Are you multi-orgasmic?
5. Did your parents enjoy sex?
6. Do you like to get hot text messages, mails and calls from your partner during the day?
7. You have often sex with your partner even if you are not interested in having sex??
8. Do you drink a lot of water?

Well... those are a bit tricky questions...
So some answers...

1. Orgasms happen in the mind... squirting even more!!! Your lady must be mentally there with you.. And often it helps if she's really excited... kept warm all day... fully ready when the time comes..
2. It's good to know where the g-spot is. And how to tease the clit. Either when having solo sex or then with the partner. But she should be already quite excited when you start to look for it... and it might take a long time... So strong gentle hands and fingers would be fine
3. And toys might be helpful too.. I like g-spot vibrators, even with a lover. They don't take anything away from his manhood, he is still the Man..
4. If you like to make your lady squirt, her pleasure is No 1. Full stop.
Giving head to her might be even the main course, not just an appetizer sometimes. Some women need both clit and g-spot stimulation, don't underestimate that...
If you prefer BJ's and want to empty your bags quickly, you are not the guy who'll make your lady squirt.
5. Normally porn has NOTHING to do with squirting!! Often fake. And to squirt, half an hour deep throat is really not needed... nor sex with your whole family...
But of course, healthy appetite and interest in sex is always welcomed
6. On this site, would help if you'd read the profiles... and then the squirting e-book...

1. The same as male 1.
2. The same as male 2. Would help if you know your body, you have no bigger hang ups, you enjoy sex...
3. If you love to give BJ's that fine! It has nothing to do with squirting - or not squirting. But if you think you are not clean enough, that'll be a problem... that's a big obstacle in your mind.
4. Seems that many squirters are multi-orgasmic, guess no real study made, just some talks in the squirting group.
5. The past is part of the present. If you got either positive or negative attitude towards sex at home, it might follow you - unless you do something to change it!!!
6. Back to the mental part... the question No 1...
7. Aijaijai.. you might be in trouble... again that mental part... If you're not FULLY THERE, you can't reach that high you need...
8. Water is one basic physical thing in squirting, you can't squirt if you have no extra liquid to produce it!!!

This is not the full truth but perhaps gives you some idea of squirting.

Squirting is not fast food, it's really slow food... might take weeks, months, even years to squirt or make your loved one to squirt.
Be prepared... as it's really worth it...
And really good if you learn it together... makes it more special

Squirters are not rare species, it's often just a question of impatient lovers who don't respect the female body and sexuality...

Most women are potential squirters... so.. do your best to give this ultimate pleasure for both of you...

Check for more info this group:
SQUIRTING

Practise, practise, practise...
And relax, relax, relax...

Enjoy... even if no squirting directly, the way to reach the goal is also very pleasant